Preparing your child for primary school: tips for parents

Dear parents!

Starting primary school is a significant milestone for both children and parents. This new chapter in your child’s life brings exciting opportunities for growth, learning, and making new friends.

However, it can also be a time filled with anxiety and uncertainty. As a parent, you play a crucial role in easing this transition and helping your child feel confident and ready for their first day of school!

To ensure a smooth and positive start, we’ve compiled a list of practical tips that will prepare your child for primary school. From visiting the school together to establishing a consistent routine and encouraging independence, these strategies will help your child adjust to their new environment and embrace the school experience with enthusiasm. 

Let’s dive into these tips to make the start of primary school a joyful and memorable journey for your child!

1. Visit the school together

If possible, familiarize your child with the school environment by visiting it before the first day. Walk through important areas such as your child’s would-be classroom, cafeteria, restrooms, library, and gymnasium. Encourage your child to ask questions about anything they see or are curious about. Address any concerns they might have in a calm and supportive manner. For instance, if they are worried about finding their classroom, show them landmarks they can use to navigate.

This will help reduce any fear of the unknown and make the first day less intimidating. Walking through the school together allows your child to visualize where they will spend their time and feel more comfortable with the new surroundings.

2. Establish a routine

Start adjusting to the school schedule a few weeks in advance. Set a regular bedtime and morning routine to help your child get used to the new schedule. Gradually move bedtime and wake-up times earlier by 15-30 minutes every few days until reaching the desired schedule. This gradual adjustment helps your child get used to the new routine without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.

Be consistent with the routine to help your child know what to expect. Consistency helps build habits and makes routine second nature. Establish regular times for waking up, meals, and bedtime. Practice the morning routine, including getting dressed and having breakfast, to make the first day smoother.

Praise and encourage your child for following the routine. Positive reinforcement helps motivate them to stick to the schedule. A simple “Great job for waking up on time!” can go a long way in encouraging them.

While consistency is key, be flexible and patient as your child adjusts. Some days might be more challenging than others, and that’s okay. Understand that adjusting to a new routine can take time and be patient with your child. Celebrate small victories and provide support on tougher days to help them adapt smoothly!

3. Talk about school positively

Discuss school in an enthusiastic and positive manner. Highlight the fun activities, new friends, and exciting learning opportunities they will experience. Your positive attitude can help shape their perception of school, making them more excited and less anxious about starting this new chapter!

You can share positive stories about your own school days. For instance, talk about your favorite activities, exciting events, and memorable teachers and classmates.
Likewise, if your child has older siblings or friends already in school, encourage them to share their enjoyable experiences and what they love about school. Hearing about school from someone they know and trust can make the idea of starting school less daunting. 

Frame learning as an exciting journey where they get to discover new things, solve puzzles, and explore different subjects. Emphasize that school is a place for adventure and discovery. If your child has shown interest in a particular subject (e.g., animals, space, art), highlight how school will allow them to learn more about these topics. This can build excitement and make them look forward to school!

Explain that school is a place to meet new friends and share exciting adventures with them. Let them know that making even one or two good friends can make their school experience enjoyable. Talk about group activities like team sports, group projects, and classroom games where they can interact with peers. Emphasize the fun and collaborative nature of these activities. By discussing school positively and sharing your enthusiasm, you can help your child build a positive perception of school!

4. Encourage independence

Teach your child basic self-care skills such as dressing themselves, using the restroom independently, and packing their school bag. These skills will not only boost their confidence but also make them feel more capable and prepared for the school environment.

Encourage your child to dress themselves every day. Start with simple tasks like putting on socks and shoes, and gradually move to more complex tasks like buttoning shirts and zipping jackets.

Ensure your child knows how to use the restroom independently, including flushing the toilet, washing their hands, and fastening their clothes afterward. Teach proper handwashing techniques using fun songs or rhymes that last 20 seconds to ensure thorough cleaning.

Additionally, you can create a visual checklist of items your child needs to pack each day, such as lunch, water bottle, homework, and school supplies. Go over the checklist together each morning or evening. Practice packing and unpacking the school bag to help your child become familiar with where items are stored and how to pack efficiently. Set up an organized space at home for school supplies and encourage your child to keep their items in designated spots for easy access.

Introduce new responsibilities gradually, starting with simple tasks and slowly increasing complexity as your child becomes more capable. Encourage them to try new tasks, providing guidance and support as needed. Celebrate their progress and milestones with praise and rewards. Use reward charts with stickers or points to motivate them to complete tasks independently and consistently. Positive reinforcement will boost their confidence and encourage continued independence!

By teaching these self-care skills and fostering independence, you help your child feel more prepared and capable as they enter primary school. This preparation will make the transition smoother and more enjoyable for both of you, and you’ll have the peace of mind of knowing your child can take care of themselves at school. 

5. Read books about school

Share stories and books about starting school to help your child understand what to expect and to address any fears they might have. Reading together can make the concept of school more familiar and less intimidating. Choose books that depict positive school experiences and discuss the stories to engage their thoughts and feelings about starting school. This can provide reassurance and spark excitement about the new adventure ahead!


Starting primary school is a big step for your child and a momentous occasion for the entire family. By preparing in advance and using these practical tips, you can help your child feel confident, capable, and excited about their new adventure. Remember, your positive attitude and support play a pivotal role in shaping their perception of school.

Celebrate the small victories, be patient with the challenges, and most importantly, enjoy this journey together. With your guidance, your child will not only adapt to primary school but thrive in this new environment. Here’s to a wonderful start to your child’s educational journey and many happy, successful school days ahead!

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